Im 15 And Want To Runaway Im Not Being Abused Im Just getting Yelled At All time And I Wanna See The world I Know Its Dangerous But Im Ready For New Adventures Im Also Going To Runaway with My Boyfriend We Talked About It And We Both Know Where were Gonna stay But he Lives In New York USA I Live In Alberta Canada i Have 965$ Dollars CAD Were Gonna met Each other Then Com Back to canada I Wanna Hear you Thoughts On This Also I Keep Seeing Ghosts In My House and One Night I Saw Blood On My walls I Had To Wash All Of it Off Before My Mom And Family Got Home The Other Night It Hold ed Me Down I Just felt Cold Hands Holding me Down On My Bed I Am Extremely Depressed Cause Of School I Cant concentrate Or Focus My Friends All Talk About Gossip And Drama They Talk About Other Girls And Im Not Sure If Im Really There Friend What If There Talking About me Right Now I Don't Know. My Mother Yells At me Allot Im Serious About This My dad Is Living With His Kids And Wife But Every time I Go stay There He Drinks Dx i Need To Get Away From My Family I Have Alot of Relatives And Family Theres Alot To Much To Count. I Keep dreaming Of Myself Dying If i Talk To Anyone About It With My Parents Or Relatives They Will End Up Telling my Parents I Need Help!!!
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A – you can't go to the US without a passport.
B – you are legally a minor, you likely won't get across the border without a letter from your parents.
C – your boyfriend can't come to Canada without a passport, and he can't just move here anyway.
D – if your boyfriend is 18 or older, and you DO manage to stay together, he could go to jail for sexual abuse of a minor. The age of consent in Canada is 16.
$965 would last only a few days if you plan to travel, eat, and have a place to sleep.
It sounds like you are feeling teen angst. You really should talk to a counsellor at school, or a priest/minister, or ask for couselling at your family services office.
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Phone the teen help line. Nobody there is going to sic CFS on you, that isn't what they are there for. They are there to give advice, to counsel, and to refer you to services. You can keep your true identity on that call phone call anonymous. You really need to talk to an adult. I have spent some time counselling teen girls in my neighbourhood, I see what they go through, and what seem like unsurmountable obstacles. I have dealt with CFS, and mental health professionals.
Somebody at the other end of the teen help line can help you break your problems down into workable pieces.
There is a special groups which will help people like you.
Kid's hot line: 1-800-668-6868
Alberta child services: 1-800-387-KIDS
They'll answer any passport questions, custody questions, and probably send someone out who will help you.
I used to have a lot of friends that are like you. I suggest not running away. If you seriously think that you have problems in your family that are so negative, and should not be in a house hold, then get a hold of child/social services (whatever canada's version of that is).
I'm not saying this negatively, and I do mean it in the best way possible. I think you should look into counseling about your family issues. This may help you a lot. I think you are taking on more stress than you are capable of handling and need to seek some one that can help you work through these problems.
If you don't choose to go that route, do the right thing when moving out. First you'll need a passport (roughly $150 usd) or I don't know if canada has this but an enhanced id (about $60 usd) Make sure you have a lot more money than you do. I would say at least a few grand, and a place set that you are going to live. Wait until you can get a license and a car. This way if all fails you have a vehicle that you can use as shelter.
Really though, If I were you I would seriously sit down with one of your parents (or both) and tell them to look into getting you counseling.
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On a more prosaic note, you probably can't get a drivers licence at 15 (it's 16 in BC), and probably not without a parent/guardian signing something. For a passport you need ID like both a birth certificate and school ID, and someone to sign that they have known you for 2 years.
If you cross the border without ID you could get in a whole heap of trouble that might mean they'd never let you cross again. Even with ID they might want to see a permission letter from parents.
this sounds like the answer but its not, dont run away, all it does is make things worse, not enough money it will run out very fast with no place to live or car to drive. And your family will miss you. I know you are not sleeping well and that takes its toll. Ask your mom and dad for help please do not run away, many people disappear never to be heard from again, leaving families in agony abouy what happened to thier loved one you need to get into bed and get some sleep now.
This sounds dangerous. My best friend ran a way 3 years ago when we were fifteen and she regrets it so much she missed out on being a kid and enjoying high school.. if you are close with your family I suggest counseling the stuff you see in your house isn't right, go to a trusted adult. Please please please don't do this I promise you will regret it. If you wanna see the world wait until your 18 and go WHEREVER you want. I promise if you stay and work things out you will not regret it..
I am 14 years old and my boyfriend, 16, told me today that in 1 or 2 years he would like to run away with me to California to live with his grandma. We live in Mexico right now. I have absolutely no problems at home, and I love my family. I also love him though and the thought of loosing him scares me. He wants to leave after his 17 birthday, but I would only be 15. I would at least like to wait until I’m 16 and he is 18. I don’t know if we will ever even be together that long, but I don’t know what to do.